Sales Training Article: Better to be Liked or Respected
Sales Training Article: Better to be Liked or Respected:
Sales Training Article: Would You Prefer to be Liked or Respected
By John Holland, Chief Content Officer, CustomerCentric Selling® - The Sales Training Company
I can make relatively unimportant buying decisions with sellers I like. However when making important buying decisions I'll choose to do business with sellers I respect as professionals. These two decisions are not mutually exclusive. In fact liking and respecting sellers you do business with is a frequent outcome. I believe the sequence works better when respect is earned first. Trying to be liked early on can come across as forcing rapport, something most buyers despise.
In making initial calls, my belief is that before buyers are willing to bare their souls by sharing their goals or business problems they must draw the conclusion that sellers are sincere and competent. Sincere is not a commonly used adjective to describe sellers. Given the pervasive negative stereotype, my inclination is more geared to avoiding a negative first impression rather than attempting to "win over" buyers in the initial contact(s).
Having buyers conclude that you are competent goes a long way toward earning his or her respect. Establishing a personal relationship that often results in liking buyers (and hopefully vice versa) will usually play out over time.
I think it would serve sellers well to have two major objectives when talking with buyers for the first time:
- First earn the buyer's respect by being perceived as sincere and competent.
- Then attempt to have the buyer share his or her business goals or problems.

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